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Sep 30, 2023Liked by Charlie Becker

Such a poignant essay that describes a common yet unspoken experience: wonder at something out of the ordinary, and confusion about how to react. I can relate to the moment of joy when a person surprises me with their lack of convention. I'm a garrulous "people person" so I usually express my curiosity and excitement. However, it seems that so many people gloss over moments of potential connection with a real live human, and instinctively avoid eye contact or turn to their phones. Why is this? I like to imagine the man with the dove stumbling over this essay and getting goosebumps as he realizes that he has impacted another man's life without even meaning to.

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Absolutely beautiful. I could feel your excitement as you approached the man with the dove. Just delighted by what you did with this experience! ☮️❤️🕊️

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I love seeing unexpected things like this. It's like a flash of colour in an otherwise "usual" landscape.

I have seen a guy walk past our house with a parrot on his shoulder once. It kind of blew my mind :)

It's the way people act all normal around strange things that always surprises me. I also always try to act like nothing is happening...no idea why :)

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Oct 2, 2023Liked by Charlie Becker

Beautiful!

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Sep 30, 2023Liked by Charlie Becker

I love this so much. I love how you captured that feeling of giddiness of a child with the attempted restraint of an adult trying to respect someone’s space. I don’t know if I could contain myself at such a lovely surprise in the day- especially after learning the simple but still fascinating explanation on how he got the bird.

Your outlet in writing to fill in the blanks gifts us with a beautiful potential explanation. Some part of me wishes I knew truly the background- but your “adult” restraint led to even more childlike wonder, making up stories and explanations for the phenomenon you experienced.

I love your normal writing, this felt different though and it was delightful to read.

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